I have always loved Maya Angelou's poetry and found her inspirational in her strength and ability to endure a trials. I like her confidence and sass too.
I shared this poem with a boy heavy GCSE group and they were unmoved, if not downright hostile, towards the sentiment of it. Most of their attitudes were, "yeah, so? Mums have to do a lot. Get over it." I sincerely hope this was just male bravado and that they do appreciate all of the work their mother's do.
I hope to raise Ellis to have a great respect for women, but also to be able to fend for himself. He already loves to feed himself and so we are off to a good start. I am also lucky that The Belgian can hold his own in the kitchen and is not allergic to hoovering. I must admit we have fallen into gender stereotypes in that he always takes out the bin and I tend to do the laundry. However, I do refuse to iron his shirts as I don't iron my own clothes even!
I hope to raise Ellis to have a great respect for women, but also to be able to fend for himself. He already loves to feed himself and so we are off to a good start. I am also lucky that The Belgian can hold his own in the kitchen and is not allergic to hoovering. I must admit we have fallen into gender stereotypes in that he always takes out the bin and I tend to do the laundry. However, I do refuse to iron his shirts as I don't iron my own clothes even!
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So important that they learn to do things for themselves and not see chores as mothers or women's work alone!
ReplyDeleteI love this quote of hers "I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels.
ReplyDeleteLife's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass". Happy International Women's Day! Sarah xxx
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I am depressed that the reaction was so hostile :(. We have such a long way to go ...
ReplyDeleteA fantastic poem from an amazing woman! Let's hope the lads dwelt on it later and had a change of heart!
ReplyDeleteI'm hoping it was male bravado. I think it probably was.
ReplyDeleteI am thinking male bravado too. Mine (included dh who is a mega clean/tidy freak lol!) all help out. Like you there are certain jobs i don't do..like put the bins out, clean the windows, cut the grass. He doesn't do the laundry or ironing (unless its his work clothes)...xx
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